Tough Guy Shame

Tough Guy Shame

When meeting a new male client in my office, I often feel that I’m working hard to pull off layers of preconceived notions about how this therapy thing is supposed to go. I’m wondering if he feels compelled to give me an explanation for why he isn’t (fill in the...
I’ll See You in the Arena – If You’re Brave Enough

I’ll See You in the Arena – If You’re Brave Enough

Every year, I participate in a kayak event called Green Race. Every year, I have to confront my fear of going fast through dangerous rapids. That is an important fear that keeps me cautious and safe. However, the strongest fear that I have is making a fool of myself...