Making Room for What Is
If you are a human person reading this, you can probably remember a time when you judged yourself harshly. Most of us move through life constantly evaluating our thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and...
What Ted Lasso, your cat, and bell hooks teach us about relationships
Isn’t it striking that the thing we’ve interacted with every day from our earliest moments is something many of us were never taught actually how to do? Not to mention it is all around us. At...
Year Two: Post Helene, thoughts from a therapist
Two years after Hurricane Helene, the water is gone. The devastation is not. September has a different weight here now. I feel it before I remember why. The light shifts. The mornings cool, and the...
Working with Acute Instincts in a Chronic Pain Experience
From the first moment of pain, we experience a systemic reaction that is not only physical in nature but also cognitive and emotional. This concert of responsiveness is instinctual and beyond our...
Self-Compassion: the Ultimate Form of Self-Care
As a therapist, I am very familiar with the concept of self-compassion. It comes up early and often in sessions, and clinically can be such a helpful tool to combat anxiety and depression. So, why...
Identity as a Compass, Not a Destination
“All I see is what I should be — happier, prettier...” The wise words of Olivia Rodrigo capture something so many people experience while trying to figure out who they are. But how are we even...
Have You Met You?
As a therapist, I get to ask questions for a living. Which is a pretty sweet gig for me, given that I am a curious person by nature. There are two questions in particular I have found myself asking...
How to Keep Going When the World is on Fire: A Therapist’s Perspective
“I want to put my soul on airplane mode.” In my daily doomscrolling ventures, I came across this reddit comment posted under an article about, well... I actually can’t even remember, but it was for...
Using the Enneagram to Grow
The Enneagram has the potential to be a powerful tool for growth. I find that a lot of people—those who have heard of the Enneagram at all—know very little about it or only know the social media...
Tenderness on the Pale Blue Dot
I want to talk to you about tenderness and why it matters. But first, I need to tell you about my friend, Grace. I met Grace the spring before we started college, at an event hosted by our now alma...
Self-Soothing with your Senses
Sometimes, life is really hard and overwhelming. Hopefully, you have activities and people who can support you when this happens. However, things like playing an instrument, hugging a friend, or...
Confessions of a Perfectionist at the Pottery Wheel
For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to learn how to use a pottery wheel. Maybe it’s the idea of making something beautiful with my hands. Maybe it’s because it looks super cool and creative...
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