Post Hurricane Helene
I’ve noticed since the storm, I have felt more sensitive to the weather. I find myself wincing or feeling a bit off on really windy days. That rain makes me feel tired, sometimes a sunny cool day...
From Overwhelm to Wholeness: Learning to Process Your Emotions
So many of us want to feel better. We want to stop feeling so sad, tired, anxious, and depressed. As a therapist, my North Star is that a large part of how we feel better is by actually being with...
Getting To Know Claire
Hello! This is Claire Robinson, one of the newest counselors to join the Mending Roots team. It’s not often you get the chance to learn about your counselor/potential counselors, so I thought I’d...
What Does it Mean to be Masculine?
I ask myself this a lot, frankly. The tropes, archetypes, narratives, and socially informed values of what masculine is and isn't are, well, everywhere. Masculine identifying individuals face a...
You Can’t Think Yourself Out of Anxiety & Other Lessons Learned from the Body
Imagine a room. Inside this room there is everything you need. Only, it isn’t a room, because it has no walls, no floor, no ceiling. And it doesn’t exist only in your imagination- it is real and...
Mastering Vulnerability: The Antidote to Dysregulation
Life can feel like a rollercoaster—full of unexpected bumps, turns, and drops. We often wear masks of “everything’s fine” to keep it all together, while inside, we’re unraveling. But vulnerability,...
Why Your Child’s Self-Regulation Starts with You
We can only learn how to manage and soothe an emotion that we allow ourselves to feel. And kids can only learn how to regulate emotions we allow them to feel. And yet, this acceptance and allowance...
You Should Hire A Death Doula
A Death doula, also known as an end-of-life doula, death midwife, or (the incredibly rad sounding) death walker, is someone who accompanies and supports people who are preparing for and navigating...
When I Feel Lost
Dear Reader, It is February when I am sitting down to write this. The light outside my window is bright, but diffused and harsh as it fights its way through heavy cloud cover. I too am feeling heavy...
Understanding Attachment Trauma
“Attention seeking.” “Manipulative.” “Difficult.” “Crazy.” These are words I’ve often heard others (even mental health professionals) use when describing someone with an attachment-based trauma...
In Their Shoes
For all the kids who have bravely and brilliantly helped me understand what it’s like to be them You awaken with a start as an alarm clangs next to your head. Someone turns on the light in your room...
Why are you asking me “Where do I feel that in my body?”: one therapist’s explanation with the help of memes
I’ll be honest, I spend more time than I should looking at memes. By nature of my interests, I often get a plethora of therapy related memes. These tend to be some of my favorites because as a...
LGBTQ+ AFFIRMING PRACTICE | ANTI-RACIST PRACTICE
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