Confessions of a Perfectionist at the Pottery Wheel

Confessions of a Perfectionist at the Pottery Wheel

For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to learn how to use a pottery wheel. Maybe it’s the idea of making something beautiful with my hands. Maybe it’s because it looks super cool and creative and calming. Maybe it’s because I was an ’80s baby who grew up in a...
Why Your Child’s Self-Regulation Starts with You

Why Your Child’s Self-Regulation Starts with You

We can only learn how to manage and soothe an emotion that we allow ourselves to feel. And kids can only learn how to regulate emotions we allow them to feel. And yet, this acceptance and allowance of big feelings—in ourselves and others—can be so, so hard. Sometimes...
In Their Shoes

In Their Shoes

For all the kids who have bravely and brilliantly helped me understand what it’s like to be them You awaken with a start as an alarm clangs next to your head. Someone turns on the light in your room and it glares against your eyelids. You burrow under the covers,...