Self-Compassion: the Ultimate Form of Self-Care

Self-Compassion: the Ultimate Form of Self-Care

As a therapist, I am very familiar with the concept of self-compassion. It comes up early and often in sessions, and clinically can be such a helpful tool to combat anxiety and depression. So, why is it that last week when I got my times mixed up for a meeting and...
Identity as a Compass, Not a Destination

Identity as a Compass, Not a Destination

“All I see is what I should be — happier, prettier…” The wise words of Olivia Rodrigo capture something so many people experience while trying to figure out who they are. But how are we even supposed to define something as huge and constantly changing as...
Have You Met You?

Have You Met You?

As a therapist, I get to ask questions for a living. Which is a pretty sweet gig for me, given that I am a curious person by nature. There are two questions in particular I have found myself asking a lot lately (sometimes just to myself, but most of the time out...
Using the Enneagram to Grow

Using the Enneagram to Grow

The Enneagram has the potential to be a powerful tool for growth. I find that a lot of people—those who have heard of the Enneagram at all—know very little about it or only know the social media memes. This pop culture version of the Enneagram, while fun, hides the...