Using the Enneagram to Grow

Using the Enneagram to Grow

The Enneagram has the potential to be a powerful tool for growth. I find that a lot of people—those who have heard of the Enneagram at all—know very little about it or only know the social media memes. This pop culture version of the Enneagram, while fun, hides the...
Tenderness on the Pale Blue Dot

Tenderness on the Pale Blue Dot

I want to talk to you about tenderness and why it matters. But first, I need to tell you about my friend, Grace. I met Grace the spring before we started college, at an event hosted by our now alma mater. At the time, I was an uncertain and anxious human, and it felt...
Self-Soothing with your Senses

Self-Soothing with your Senses

Sometimes, life is really hard and overwhelming. Hopefully, you have activities and people who can support you when this happens. However, things like playing an instrument, hugging a friend, or going for a run are not always options when you need them. Maybe it’s...
Confessions of a Perfectionist at the Pottery Wheel

Confessions of a Perfectionist at the Pottery Wheel

For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to learn how to use a pottery wheel. Maybe it’s the idea of making something beautiful with my hands. Maybe it’s because it looks super cool and creative and calming. Maybe it’s because I was an ’80s baby who grew up in a...
A World Not Always Designed for Everyone in Mind

A World Not Always Designed for Everyone in Mind

Who is the “perfect” candidate for therapy? Does such a thing even exist? A persistent misconception held not only by the general public but also within the mental health provider community as well, is the belief that some individuals cannot access or benefit from...