Making Room for What Is

Making Room for What Is

If you are a human person reading this, you can probably remember a time when you judged yourself harshly. Most of us move through life constantly evaluating our thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and experiences. This is a survival strategy– if we are able to identify...
Year Two: Post Helene, thoughts from a therapist

Year Two: Post Helene, thoughts from a therapist

Two years after Hurricane Helene, the water is gone. The devastation is not. September has a different weight here now. I feel it before I remember why. The light shifts. The mornings cool, and the mountains begin their slow turn toward fall, and somewhere inside me,...
Self-Compassion: the Ultimate Form of Self-Care

Self-Compassion: the Ultimate Form of Self-Care

As a therapist, I am very familiar with the concept of self-compassion. It comes up early and often in sessions, and clinically can be such a helpful tool to combat anxiety and depression. So, why is it that last week when I got my times mixed up for a meeting and...
Identity as a Compass, Not a Destination

Identity as a Compass, Not a Destination

“All I see is what I should be — happier, prettier…” The wise words of Olivia Rodrigo capture something so many people experience while trying to figure out who they are. But how are we even supposed to define something as huge and constantly changing as...